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EffectiveBlackCat | 2021-05-18 05:59:05 | 1,621,317,545 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | nf2qmo | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nf2qmo/what_does_a_man_need_to_look_like_to_get_dates/ | 0 | I work in organic food warehouse and internet orders so I often see couples together day to day visiting the organic farm shop where I work. If I look at the trend, pretty much every guy I have seen walking around with a slim average woman is either insanely massive (6ft1+ and 90kg+) or white and very handsome. Last on... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What does a man need to look like to get dates with slim, regular looking average women? | null | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nf2qmo/what_does_a_man_need_to_look_like_to_get_dates/ |
throwaway31271801 | 2014-08-02 20:24:07 | 1,407,011,047 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 2cg5ji | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2cg5ji/dont_want_to_see_her_again_but_kind_of_messed_up/ | 1 | Went on a date with someone I met on OKcupid. We had a lot to talk about and there were rarely any lapses in the conversation, but she looked considerably different than how she represented herself on her profile. Very different. I could maybe see myself hanging out with her as a friend so I told her it would be cool t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Don't want to see her again but kind of messed up. | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2cg5ji/dont_want_to_see_her_again_but_kind_of_messed_up/ |
rhz10 | 2019-10-23 20:31:32 | 1,571,862,692 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | dm58ro | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/dm58ro/dating_a_separated_woman/ | 4 | This is something I’ve generally avoided. If I were to make an exception, when is the earliest polite time to inquire about the separation (has she filed, is she living apart from her husband, lenh of separation, etc)? In initial OLD messages? In person? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Dating a separated woman | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/dm58ro/dating_a_separated_woman/ |
fairytrailapp | 2020-05-29 15:33:55 | 1,590,766,435 | null | null | 0 | gsv4qa | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/gsv4qa/after_matching_with_someone_do_you_want_to/ | 1 | null | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | After matching with someone, do you want to.... | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gsv4qa/after_matching_with_someone_do_you_want_to/ |
D0vahKiin2001 | 2019-07-07 15:04:17 | 1,562,511,857 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | ca7ro5 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ca7ro5/online_dating_is_not_easier_than_going_to_the_bars/ | 7 | Sure.. if you look really good you will definitely have success. I've been online dating for three months now and it's fucking hard as a solid 6 or 7 I've gotten only a few matches most of them lead nowhere and if i get the numbers most girls don't text back after a few days even if we had good conversations. If i get ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online Dating is not easier than going to the bars | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ca7ro5/online_dating_is_not_easier_than_going_to_the_bars/ |
Sea_Contribution7821 | 2021-05-28 12:27:14 | 1,622,204,834 | null | ['matched', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | nmwqxg | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nmwqxg/should_i_or_should_i_not_give_the_girl_ive_been/ | 1 | Matched with her on tinder a little over a month and half ago. She’s more interested in video chatting then texting which is a first for me but really allows for better conversation. She’s always the one to initiate the calls too. The first night she told me she liked having company to fall asleep to so we stayed on ca... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I or should I not give the girl I’ve been talking to for a month a third shot? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nmwqxg/should_i_or_should_i_not_give_the_girl_ive_been/ |
naturally_ares | 2020-08-25 03:24:07 | 1,598,325,847 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ig4chd | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ig4chd/time_to_date/ | 1 | How do you know when its time to start dating? Specially during a pandemic where traditional dating is not a norm anymore. I dont know if I'll ever feel like dating but I want to start dating soon I guess. I am not comfortable on dating apps. More confident in person then I am online. Anyway, do you just...feel like da... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Time to date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ig4chd/time_to_date/ |
Upeanut | 2023-09-06 21:44:49 | 1,694,036,689 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16bx45l | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16bx45l/i_feel_like_my_work_situation_could_be_impacting/ | 1 | I (27m) have been dating since March in the past I never seemed to have much difficulty finding someone I was a good match with part of that might be because I didn’t spot red flags as easily but I think the other part could be that my life situation has changed a good bit. Back in December I bought a truck and took a ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel like my work situation could be impacting my dating life | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16bx45l/i_feel_like_my_work_situation_could_be_impacting/ |
GauchoSiah | 2023-09-15 21:14:18 | 1,694,812,458 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16jp2w8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16jp2w8/been_talking_to_this_girl_for_about_a_month_and_a/ | 1 | I (19m) met this girl(19f) on hinge and we’re both ready to be official (we both playfully joke about it) so I asked her after mashing pissers to be official I said “I wanna be yours, be my girlfriend” and she laughed in my face, and said “That’s ghetto af (inside joke because where I’m from) you can’t ask me after sex... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Been talking to this girl for about a month and a half, we’re both ready to be official but don’t know how to ask her | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16jp2w8/been_talking_to_this_girl_for_about_a_month_and_a/ |
raaayxox | 2019-08-23 09:18:54 | 1,566,551,934 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cubebc | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cubebc/how_could_someone_be_so_mean/ | 1 | Started speaking to a guy on tinder two years back, wasn't that attracted to him but he was funny so continued to talk. Decided to just talk to him as a friend but dated other guys during this period, he would ask me several times to meet up and I would give excuses because I didn't know how to say I wasn't interested ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How could someone be so mean? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cubebc/how_could_someone_be_so_mean/ |
AdditionalBreak9071 | 2023-11-03 19:56:18 | 1,699,041,378 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17n3im7 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17n3im7/what_is_considered_too_slow/ | 1 | Hey. I am a (26F) dealing with a (27M). I matched with this guy in July of this year on hinge, but we had a met a few times before that because we frequent the same spaces. I talk to him whenever I see him (after we initially matched in July, but never prior, only just staring on both sides hahaha). My question is, wha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What is considered too slow? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17n3im7/what_is_considered_too_slow/ |
Legitimate_Bison3756 | 2023-10-08 16:38:18 | 1,696,783,098 | 0 | null | 0 | 1733lsg | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1733lsg/is_it_common_to_see_many_female_profiles/ | 1 | I see many profiles with pictures of them at Taylor Swift concerts, prompts asking what your favorite Taylor Swift song is, telling you to not go out with them if you don’t like Taylor Swift. I believe at least 15% of profiles I see mention Taylor Swift in some way. I never see any other musical artist mentioned. Why d... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is it common to see many female profiles dedicated to Taylor Swift and do you auto-swipe left on them? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1733lsg/is_it_common_to_see_many_female_profiles/ |
flamingle22 | 2018-09-30 23:34:37 | 1,538,350,477 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9kb5la | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9kb5la/do_i_tell_him_the_truth_or_nah/ | 1 | So Ive been on a couple of dates with this guy from tinder and Im really into him. Just after our second date, I got a message from a girl I had a threesome with 3 weeks earlier advising that she has chlamydia and there is a chance I might have it. I've booked in an appointment to get checked next week. Me and this guy... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do I tell him the truth or nah? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9kb5la/do_i_tell_him_the_truth_or_nah/ |
Yodatwin | 2018-09-23 02:03:16 | 1,537,668,196 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9i514c | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9i514c/how_do_i_deal_with_this_situation/ | 1 | So there's this girl that I've been texting consistently for about a week after matching on tinder. Shes also the one doing most of the talking. We decided to meet up and grab some sushi for a lunch date(if you could call it that). We seemed to get along pretty well through the phone, but immediately after the date, sh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I deal with this situation? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9i514c/how_do_i_deal_with_this_situation/ |
Less_Cake_5957 | 2024-06-21 18:55:06 | 1,718,996,106 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1dlbmkd | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dlbmkd/let_me_know/ | 1 | So, I (30F) am debating dipping my toes back into the water after my LTR ended, but my plan was to create a tinder and simultaneously complete some home projects. I know most people don't want to do manual labor when on a date, but there are just some things that I can't do alone. So date 1 could be helping me put wall... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Let Me Know | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dlbmkd/let_me_know/ |
DaChizz44 | 2024-05-25 21:13:55 | 1,716,671,635 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d0lqd9 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d0lqd9/help_me_help_you/ | 1 | So here is the thing, I'm designing a new product as a dating coach. I'm not trying to sell anything, just get the input of young guys that want to improve their dating life and get a girlfriend. Getting someone to care for and that cares for you, while being yourself, is very fullfiling and EVERYONE is entitled to tha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help me help you | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d0lqd9/help_me_help_you/ |
catchmeifyoucan_1994 | 2021-05-02 05:51:55 | 1,619,934,715 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | n306i8 | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n306i8/whats_an_ugly_girl_to_do_these_days/ | 5 | So I just turned 27. Here I am. I need advice on how to meet a man! No dating experience at all. I downloaded deleted and redownloaded many many dating apps. I literally get close to no matches or noone wants to answer back. Today I was at the dog park and I saw the most amazing guy. But I did nothing. I feel like ever... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Whats an ugly girl to do these days? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n306i8/whats_an_ugly_girl_to_do_these_days/ |
Consistent_Form1798 | 2023-03-30 21:57:27 | 1,680,213,447 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1270krm | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1270krm/frustrated_and_confused_after_this_shit/ | 1 | So I (24F) met this guy (31M) on OkCupid, who I was interested in pursuing mainly romantically but was still interested in platonically. We seemed to share a lot in common and had similar outlooks... However, he is in the process of a divorce from his HS sweetheart (33F) and knew he didn't want a LTR for the time being... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Frustrated and confused after this shit 🤔 | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1270krm/frustrated_and_confused_after_this_shit/ |
spacemonkey1988 | 2017-09-14 01:52:01 | 1,505,353,921 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 6zz933 | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6zz933/unmatching_with_exs/ | 2 | Recently matched with my ex. She said hello and wished me well. I said thank you, and wished her well. How long should I keep the match? Forever? Or wait a little and then unmatch? More importantly, what message does that send to unmatch her? PS I want to get back together with her, but through advice from friends was ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Unmatching with Ex's | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6zz933/unmatching_with_exs/ |
Top_Elephant_19004 | 2023-01-11 16:42:10 | 1,673,455,330 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 10997f7 | true | null | 74 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/10997f7/dating_with_teens/ | 16 | I split with my ex last year and am now in the early stages of dating someone. We met on Bumble and are now on the third date. I have two teens. I told them last night that I was going to be out tonight because I am going on a date. Teen 1’s response was “mmm…ok.” Teen 2 is pissed. I am being very careful and have told... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Dating with teens | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/10997f7/dating_with_teens/ |
Kingofthe925 | 2024-04-30 07:30:43 | 1,714,462,243 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1cgmz2p | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1cgmz2p/how_do_guys_just_be_confident/ | 7 | I’ve been told over and over the key to happiness and to attracting a partner is to “be confident.” But I don’t know how one does this. I think I’m a good enough person, and I think I’m about average in most categories including appearance. Yet when it comes to girls, it’s so hard to have confidence. Every girl I’ve in... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do guys just “be confident” | 6 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1cgmz2p/how_do_guys_just_be_confident/ |
helpcatxmas2018 | 2019-02-15 19:50:10 | 1,550,260,210 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | ar0h15 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ar0h15/hes_constantly_doubting_me_and_we_just_started/ | 2 | This guy I’m dating made plans to hang out at his house last night when I got in the car he asked me if I had my bag. Then otw after dinner he just randomly says he’s gonna take me home. Then I got upset bc I told him after dinner it was his choice and he said no it’s up to you and I chose to go over. He seemed to be u... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He’s constantly doubting me and we just started dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ar0h15/hes_constantly_doubting_me_and_we_just_started/ |
[deleted] | 2022-01-24 03:35:32 | 1,642,995,332 | null | null | 0 | sbc926 | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/sbc926/online_dating_and_bringing_up_conversations_on/ | 18 | I get put in the celibate box, when actually I'm more in the "will need to get to know someone before having sex" basket. For me this means say 2-3 months before sex happens or at least when I feel ready to on my timeline and theirs. This comes up in conversation a lot with men saying that waiting for sex before marria... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Online dating and bringing up conversations on first sexual encounters. | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/sbc926/online_dating_and_bringing_up_conversations_on/ |
uncleji_SAM | 2023-11-07 16:06:59 | 1,699,373,219 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17pxnnq | true | Question ❓ | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17pxnnq/double_standards_i_have_noticed_when_dating/ | 1 | NOTE: This is completely my experience and doesn’t define all women and all men! Something I have noticed when using dating apps is that when I am talking to multiple girls on a dating app and seeing multiple girls(hookup,date etc) multiple people(reddit,discord, and irl) have told me this is bad practice. However many... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Double standards I have noticed when dating | 1 | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17pxnnq/double_standards_i_have_noticed_when_dating/ |
emilyvogt | 2024-08-16 21:15:44 | 1,723,842,944 | 0 | ['tinder', 'badoo'] | 0 | 1eu06lp | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eu06lp/need_help_discover_that_he_has_a_girlfriend_do_i/ | 1 | Hello, Im new here and Im not a native speaker but Im going to try to explain. Sorry for the big text, giving context. So it all began 6 years ago, i (30F) met him (26M) on Badoo. We met in person, i slept in his house a few times, i started getting feelings and he was very distant and cold. Example: he never answered ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help. Discover that he has a girlfriend. Do i tell her? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eu06lp/need_help_discover_that_he_has_a_girlfriend_do_i/ |
LessCrab4853 | 2024-08-31 03:18:09 | 1,725,074,289 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1f5dsza | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f5dsza/long_distance_situationship/ | 1 | okay I (21F) have been talking to this guy that I met on a dating app 5 months ago. We have become super close to the point that we have the Super BFF on snap and a 150 day snapstreak. Morning to night we are always in contact. The only issue is he is in a different country (we originally met cuz I was messing around a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | long distance situationship | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f5dsza/long_distance_situationship/ |
ZoeToidtheOmniscient | 2024-05-25 16:32:38 | 1,716,654,758 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1d0ft7m | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1d0ft7m/stop_dating_and_make_more_friends_or_keep_doing/ | 9 | At the the moment (M47 single no kids) I have 2 lonime friends that care about me, but only see a few times a year (at my initiative often), more often rarely happens. my older friends have kids now and ignore me. So I don't have friends to hang with regularly and I'm hiding this loneliness from my peers and family to ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Stop dating and make more friends or keep doing both ? | 9 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1d0ft7m/stop_dating_and_make_more_friends_or_keep_doing/ |
Dry_Champion_4650 | 2021-01-26 21:50:00 | 1,611,697,800 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | l5omzl | true | null | 181 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/l5omzl/tinder_bio_has_a_picture_that_i_took_of_him_on_a/ | 281 | We aren't exclusive and haven't had any discussion about where we are going. Been dating over a month, been on 6 dates. But I just noticed he has updated his tinder bio pictures and there is one I took of him on our second date. I'm kind of pissed and I want to bring it up. Am I overreacting? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Tinder bio has a picture that I took of him on a date. | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/l5omzl/tinder_bio_has_a_picture_that_i_took_of_him_on_a/ |
TheGreyBearded | 2022-10-18 21:18:04 | 1,666,127,884 | null | null | 0 | y7j71l | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y7j71l/have_apps_completely_canceled_free_users/ | 2 | I've had about 12 likes on my OKcupid profile for about 2-3 weeks. I swipe probably \20 mins every other day or so (I actually look at the profiles and don't just swipe right on everyone) and I only get a match/missed match on about 1 out of every 80-100 swipes. That means I'm not even presented the profiles that swipe... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Have apps completely canceled free users? | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y7j71l/have_apps_completely_canceled_free_users/ |
CecilPalad | 2020-01-06 15:36:25 | 1,578,324,985 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ekvock | true | null | 216 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ekvock/someone_please_help_me_on_this_question_why_wait/ | 54 | Please someone help me out on this topic, I’m really struggling to understand. I keep seeing on DOT that a good portion (70%+?) of all early relationship issues arise because people are not seeing each other exclusively. This could be a few weeks, a month, a few months, and I’ve even read about people who have been see... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Someone please help me on this question, why wait to determine exclusivity? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ekvock/someone_please_help_me_on_this_question_why_wait/ |
robby_g23 | 2023-06-03 09:14:14 | 1,685,783,654 | 0 | null | 0 | 13z6xsp | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13z6xsp/49_m_talking_about_how_is_your_old_going_with_a/ | 2 | I feel so clueless on this 😬 It’s probably not because I feel like I can always say or be my authentic self. Now, with perhaps a factor of (generationally-former) vestigial Catholic-guilt issues, what I struggle with being honest with myself is: am I here for hookups or here for LTR? I have a hard time separating this... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 49 M. Talking about “how is your OLD going?” with a first or second date. | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13z6xsp/49_m_talking_about_how_is_your_old_going_with_a/ |
malachai926 | 2020-06-22 20:36:28 | 1,592,858,188 | null | ['tinder', 'hinge', 'match.com'] | 0 | he0a2j | true | null | 74 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/he0a2j/do_you_ever_legitimately_wonder_if_you_should/ | 57 | I don't even necessarily mean something like "throwing in the towel" or "giving up". I mean it more like maybe being totally honest with one's self about the trajectory of one's life, all you want to achieve and strive for, and whether it ever occurs to you that maybe the married life just isn't for you? I've been givi... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Do you ever legitimately wonder if you should give this up for good? | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/he0a2j/do_you_ever_legitimately_wonder_if_you_should/ |
wulolo | 2014-10-15 17:47:26 | 1,413,395,246 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2jc51y | null | null | 14 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/2jc51y/women_just_looking_to_get_laid_who_are_you_and/ | 0 | (By the way geez what is with everyone downvoting this to hell 0_0) I've only ever had sex in a relationship, and for a few reasons I'm not interested in hiring a prostitute. My experience in real life (and I'm in college right now, in the U.S.) has led me to believe that very, VERY few women are interested in casual s... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Women "just looking to get laid": who are "you," and how do I find "you"? (Broadly speaking.) | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/2jc51y/women_just_looking_to_get_laid_who_are_you_and/ |
akemp595 | 2021-12-16 19:58:28 | 1,639,684,708 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | rhyr71 | true | I Need Advice | 32 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rhyr71/advice_required_asap/ | 0 | I have been texting a guy for a ages (after matching on a dating app) on Monday we started to talking about when we were both free and then he stopped replying, he reply’s today saying he forgot to reply as he read the message early in the morning on Tuesday - does this sound like an excuse? There was no apology for no... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice required ASAP! | null | 0.17 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rhyr71/advice_required_asap/ |
rinn2k19 | 2019-08-26 17:22:48 | 1,566,840,168 | null | ['dating site', 'badoo'] | 0 | cvr44u | true | I Need Advice | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cvr44u/my_date_refuses_to_talk_to_me_after_a_week/ | 2 | TLDR: I smothered my date with texts to solve small issues. We had a really nice nearly perfect IRL experience, but she stopped replying to me and leaves me on read. What to do or think? Hello, I'm 27 and she is 22. I never had a girlfriend before, so I will explain how I met her and how it (possibly ended). I was scro... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My date refuses to talk to me after a week. Feeling destroyed. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cvr44u/my_date_refuses_to_talk_to_me_after_a_week/ |
thrown_copper | 2022-04-19 15:23:05 | 1,650,381,785 | null | ['matches', 'swiping'] | 0 | u77pav | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u77pav/reasonable_smart_dating_goals_38m/ | 3 | "What are some reasonable dating goals to set for myself?" Alright, it's that time of the year for many working professionals, to write out goals for the rest of the year. One of the more common models is "SMART" - specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, timely. I'm all about goal-setting (and process-following) wh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Reasonable SMART dating goals? [38M] | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u77pav/reasonable_smart_dating_goals_38m/ |
xiangangmer | 2023-01-04 18:11:08 | 1,672,855,868 | null | null | 0 | 103ahkd | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/103ahkd/old_for_marriage_gay_edition/ | 1 | I am struggling to find likeminded men who want to get married. I'm 27 now, yet it's honestly just as bad as when I was 22. Anyways, does anyone know where I should look or which apps are actually better? I'm desperate enough to spend money on apps or subscriptions if it will make a meaningful difference | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | OLD for Marriage (Gay Edition) | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/103ahkd/old_for_marriage_gay_edition/ |
latdaddy420 | 2020-08-09 13:02:06 | 1,596,978,126 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | i6iynm | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i6iynm/how_to_handle_people_who_constantly_reschedule/ | 0 | M (26) got out of a 5 year relationship. I’m trying to get dates, I’m told I’m good looking and a good talker, I did okay in the dating and hook up scene in university. But now whenever I try to set up a date the girl agrees to it and then when the date comes they reschedule or “something came up”. This has happened to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to handle people who constantly reschedule | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i6iynm/how_to_handle_people_who_constantly_reschedule/ |
Relative_Trifle7499 | 2023-04-13 14:15:16 | 1,681,395,316 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 12kqov2 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12kqov2/is_how_im_feeling_normal/ | 0 | I (f23) recently met someone (m25) on a dating app and so far things have been going well but I've not been able to fully enjoy it. I've been feeling pretty burnt out from dating recently, I don't have an issue with getting matches but I have been having a hard time finding someone I really connect with. Usually first ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is How I'm Feeling Normal? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12kqov2/is_how_im_feeling_normal/ |
sammyjamez | 2020-07-30 07:14:02 | 1,596,093,242 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | i0hmbb | true | Venting | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/i0hmbb/trying_to_connect_with_other_people_through/ | 1 | I do not know where to begin, honestly because I am aware that this is a super complicated issue. I'll start with the basics. I struggle with loneliness and had struggled with it for a very long time. I also struggle with mental issues but I luckily have a psychology degree and go through therapy and I have pretty much... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Trying to connect with other people through social media has serious repercussions on my health | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/i0hmbb/trying_to_connect_with_other_people_through/ |
descreetfu | 2024-09-13 13:36:32 | 1,726,234,592 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ffux3x | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ffux3x/questions_for_the_ladies_30_to_50_years_old/ | 2 | What dating apps are you using? What gets your attention? What are instant turn offs? I'm a good looking guy, with my shit together. If I can get to the first date, things tend to go really well for me. My problem is that the women I'm most attracted to, with similar interests, and lifestyle, either don't match with me... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Questions for the ladies 30 to 50 years old | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ffux3x/questions_for_the_ladies_30_to_50_years_old/ |
LiaMargaridaSilva | 2015-10-11 22:10:15 | 1,444,601,415 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3odovb | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3odovb/first_date_at_theme_park_advice_please/ | 1 | Hi, i found a really nice and cute guy on tinder (i know) and he actually seems normal. We have been talking for a while, moved on to texts and calls and i really enjoy our conversations, we have a lot in common. The thing is we havent met, but he asked me out, particularly to go with him to an amusement park. I loved ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date at theme park advice please! | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3odovb/first_date_at_theme_park_advice_please/ |
AquaRoze | 2021-04-05 23:05:15 | 1,617,663,915 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | mkxfpo | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mkxfpo/decent_dating_site_out_there/ | 2 | Tried 3 so far. Meet me took the damn cake. Nothing but creeps so far. Had one guy talk to me like an normal human being. I think I'm going to return being an happy hermit | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Decent dating site out there? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mkxfpo/decent_dating_site_out_there/ |
[deleted] | 2014-03-08 04:37:50 | 1,394,253,470 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1zval5 | null | null | 27 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/1zval5/anything_i_should_be_aware_of_before_going_on/ | 1 | I'm just wondering if there's anything to keep in mind before I go on a first date with a feminist. For example should I not offer to pay for the meal(s)? I know from her OkCupid profile that things such as "holding door open for a women, pulling out her seat for her" she finds sexist. I don't have anything against fem... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Anything I should be aware of before going on first date with a feminist? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1zval5/anything_i_should_be_aware_of_before_going_on/ |
Cautious-Ad-6349 | 2021-07-19 21:22:58 | 1,626,729,778 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | onnkxh | true | I Need Advice | 98 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/onnkxh/30f_and_running_out_of_hope/ | 42 | Hi all \IMPORTANT EDIT: To all the men messaging me trying to pick me up, please stop lol. I came on here for advice, please don't treat my post as a dating profile, I am not here to be picked up thanks. Please have more class, you're literally proving my whole point in this post\ \Another Edit: To all the people sayin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 30F and running out of hope | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/onnkxh/30f_and_running_out_of_hope/ |
wellbloom | 2024-08-02 13:35:37 | 1,722,605,737 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1eia85z | true | null | 98 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1eia85z/not_sure_if_i_should_hangout_with_this_new_guy/ | 21 | We matched on Bumble and met last Sunday. We had planned a day hike but were rained out so grabbed lunch and then hung out at his place afterwards to smoke some weed and chit chat. He didn’t make a move at all and it was a lovely afternoon. He asked if I wanted to hangout again so we decided on this evening. But here’s... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Not sure if I should hangout with this new guy tonight. Opinions needed! | 21 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1eia85z/not_sure_if_i_should_hangout_with_this_new_guy/ |
throfdfway22 | 2017-11-19 01:57:19 | 1,511,056,639 | null | ['tinder', 'badoo'] | 0 | 7dxipe | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7dxipe/is_my_girlfriend_active_on_badoo_20m_20f/ | 3 | This girl and I got exclusive two weeks ago after meeting on Tinder. I deleted my Tinder account when we did this, and so did she, but while I clearing out my other apps, I realised I still had Badoo - an app I hadn't logged into for ages. I decide to open it up - mainly to delete my account on that too. However, in th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is my girlfriend active on Badoo? [20/M] [20/F] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7dxipe/is_my_girlfriend_active_on_badoo_20m_20f/ |
Propaganda_Box | 2017-06-17 14:58:19 | 1,497,711,499 | null | ['online dating', 'pof'] | 0 | 6httiq | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating/comments/6httiq/kinda_miffed_but_also_kinda_amused/ | 1 | So last year I started exchanging messages with a girl on POF. I thought we had hit it off well. After a week or two I get her number and we set up a first date. Well come the night before she calls it off saying she thinks I'm too old for her (I was 26 at the time, she was 20. So right at the cusp of my acceptable age... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Kinda miffed, but also kinda amused | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6httiq/kinda_miffed_but_also_kinda_amused/ |
BigMark97 | 2020-07-29 02:41:27 | 1,595,990,487 | null | ['matched', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | hzslec | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hzslec/dating_in_covid_what_to_do/ | 2 | So back in March when everything shutdown due to coivd and since there wasn't much to do I hoped back on tinder/bumble, anyways I matched with this girl and we hit it off and we texted back and forth for about a couple of months, and when things started to open up again we meet in person and went on a couple of dates a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating in Covid what to do? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hzslec/dating_in_covid_what_to_do/ |
Nervous_Pass_5492 | 2024-04-18 16:57:53 | 1,713,459,473 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1c78duj | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1c78duj/how_to_approachpursue_bigger_guys/ | 1 | I 25f have a very specific attraction to bearded guys that are on the slightly heavier side but just don’t see them on dating apps. I often feel as if I see these types of men with curvier or more plus size women rather than women built like me, 5’9 with a slim/lean build. So my confidence in approaching these men in p... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How to approach/pursue bigger guys | 1 | 0.3 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1c78duj/how_to_approachpursue_bigger_guys/ |
ThoughtCrafty6154 | 2023-08-13 04:07:29 | 1,691,899,649 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 15pov6s | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/15pov6s/what_are_some_things_that_makes_you_unmatch_that/ | 1 | I've unmatched with 3 women in the past week. I don't feel as if there was much intrest being shown. If I don't get hardly any questions or days go by without a response I just unmatch. Noone did anything wrong, and one had even agreed to meet, but no texts first or not hardly any questions asked and I'm out. I do see ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What are some things that makes you unmatch that are lesser reasons but you just aren't feeling it? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/15pov6s/what_are_some_things_that_makes_you_unmatch_that/ |
peepeepoopoogyal | 2024-07-18 01:38:22 | 1,721,266,702 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1e5zhub | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e5zhub/ive_been_talking_to_a_guy_for_almost_a_month_but/ | 1 | I (24F) met a guy (25M) on bumble over a month ago. We talked for a bit, then he got my socials and we took our conversation there. We clicked almost instantly, good connection and things got a little spicy too quickly. we planned to meet twice but he cancelled on me on those two times probably because he was nervous (... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’ve been talking to a guy for almost a month, but suddenly he’s pulling away | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e5zhub/ive_been_talking_to_a_guy_for_almost_a_month_but/ |
mothchu | 2023-05-31 05:07:37 | 1,685,509,657 | 0 | null | 0 | 13wczee | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13wczee/being_safe_going_on_dates_as_a_woman_who_cant/ | 11 | there isn’t any public transportation in my area so I rely mostly on my mom or my sister to get me places but obviously they aren’t available all of the time. I’m very new to the online dating scene (and to dating in general) and it’s just now dawning on me how crazy and a bit dangerous it is asking guys to pick me up ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | being safe going on dates as a woman who can’t drive? | 11 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13wczee/being_safe_going_on_dates_as_a_woman_who_cant/ |
[deleted] | 2015-05-01 18:16:03 | 1,430,504,163 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 34jjpd | null | null | 12 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/34jjpd/do_women_typically_swipe_left_on_guys_they_know/ | 2 | On dating apps, what do you do if you run into someone you know? Do you like their profile, or ignore them, or what? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Do women typically swipe left on guys they know in real life on dating apps? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/34jjpd/do_women_typically_swipe_left_on_guys_they_know/ |
MaleficentBoat9663 | 2024-08-14 05:45:04 | 1,723,614,304 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ertvfr | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ertvfr/guy_im_talking_to_tells_me_im_the_only_on_but_is/ | 2 | Okay so I need some help, I was traveling 2 months ago abroad and met this guy and we ended up going out together a few times and really hitting it off. Essentially I REALLY like him but I had to go back home about a month ago and he’s actually moving nearby soon ( not for me, just was already planned). We’ve been text... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy I’m talking to tells me I’m the only on but is recently on tinder.. | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ertvfr/guy_im_talking_to_tells_me_im_the_only_on_but_is/ |
Zealousideal-Set3058 | 2023-10-24 03:00:31 | 1,698,116,431 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 17f2tdp | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17f2tdp/anyone_been_in_this_situation_im_worried_i_pushed/ | 1 | I matched with his guy 2 months ago now and we met up a few days after chatting on the app. We’ve been in touch consistently and have phone calls, we connect well and I really like his personality a lot. Also he’s handsome and kind. Overall we click well and enjoy each others company. He messaged me saying that we coul... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Anyone been in this situation? I’m worried I pushed him away | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17f2tdp/anyone_been_in_this_situation_im_worried_i_pushed/ |
WorldWarITrenchBoi | 2021-02-20 09:23:18 | 1,613,812,998 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | lo3jqi | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lo3jqi/how_dangerous_is_it_to_go_on_a_date_and_kiss_a/ | 4 | Okay, so basically I have not dated at this point for the entire duration of this pandemic. I haven’t really met anyone, haven’t spoken to anyone either, no kisses or sex obviously, and as stated, no dates. Recently downloaded tinder again, quickly matched with a relatively cute girl and just last night she asked me if... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How dangerous is it to go on a date and kiss a girl in NYC, during this pandemic? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lo3jqi/how_dangerous_is_it_to_go_on_a_date_and_kiss_a/ |
Beginning_Tell_8817 | 2023-02-15 21:50:48 | 1,676,497,848 | null | null | 0 | 1139knf | true | null | 82 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1139knf/frustrating/ | 21 | We match i say “hello” they disconnect. Lol what do u want and why did u match if hello is enough to turn you off | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Frustrating | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1139knf/frustrating/ |
TheMoniker | 2023-09-12 03:09:34 | 1,694,488,174 | 0 | null | 0 | 16gg1fu | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16gg1fu/how_do_you_get_support_from_an_actual_human_at/ | 1 | I have sent in a few support tickets to Tinder regarding a feature that is not working and it seems pretty clear from the responses from their support that it's just a bot, even though they are signed with names. I had saved up about 60 boosts over several years back when I was using Tinder Plus. This year I subscribed... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How do you get support from an actual human at Tinder? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16gg1fu/how_do_you_get_support_from_an_actual_human_at/ |
LibertyState | 2018-04-03 22:47:41 | 1,522,795,661 | 0 | null | 0 | 89jlb2 | false | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/89jlb2/what_are_some_ideas_for_a_second_date_from_online/ | 3 | Went out on a first date for coffee, nothing happened, just talked and walked. Just felt like talking to a friend (unfortunately?). Now she agreed for a second date, but expects me to plan it. What are some ideas for second date? I learned from her that she likes to travel and go out with friends. Like these are her ho... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What are some ideas for a second date from online dating? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/89jlb2/what_are_some_ideas_for_a_second_date_from_online/ |
peach_34 | 2022-12-21 19:43:26 | 1,671,651,806 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'bumble'] | 0 | zryntl | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zryntl/am_i_female_to_ugly_to_date_other_women/ | 1 | Hey guys, I (female, 22 y/o) tried out bumble cause I heard some good stuff about it. And I liked the idea cause maybe I would have the oppurtunity to also meet women( I am bisexual) Before, I only had relationsships with men and after those it was hard to find a woman in reallife to me. So I installed it and decided t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I (female) to ugly to date other women? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zryntl/am_i_female_to_ugly_to_date_other_women/ |
Candlehoarder615 | 2023-11-08 23:13:42 | 1,699,485,222 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 17qyn8o | true | Seeking Advice | 56 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/17qyn8o/too_soon_to_start_dating_need_real_opinions_please/ | 7 | I'm (45F) newly separated, my husband (60M) and I were married for 21 years. He left 3 weeks ago after confessing that he's been having an affair since mid Aug. We basically lived like roommates since last September when he took a new job working 3rd shift. I didn't want to admit it but our marriage ended long before h... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Too soon to start dating? Need real opinions please | 7 | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17qyn8o/too_soon_to_start_dating_need_real_opinions_please/ |
Extreme-Arugula-5320 | 2022-09-26 10:25:59 | 1,664,187,959 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | xoferg | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xoferg/dating_going_well/ | 1 | So I matched with a girl on tinder just over a month ago. We talked for a couple of weeks, have since been on 3 dates and it seems to be going quite well. I really do like her and we've both said we want to meet again. We were texting about a 4th date but it's now been 24hrs without a reply despite her having told me s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating going well? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xoferg/dating_going_well/ |
Royal-Calendar9860 | 2021-10-23 20:17:08 | 1,635,020,228 | null | null | 0 | qecmc9 | true | null | 58 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/qecmc9/has_anyone_ever_succeeded_on_tinder_or_bumble_or/ | 0 | Just to see how many guys have gotten something from it! | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Has anyone ever succeeded on Tinder or Bumble or Badoo or Hinge or Happn? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qecmc9/has_anyone_ever_succeeded_on_tinder_or_bumble_or/ |
GEMHOEBBY | 2021-03-28 07:41:27 | 1,616,917,287 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | meww4r | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/meww4r/most_confusing_man_ever_help/ | 0 | I (23F) got divorced in July and have been trying to "date". After being out of the game for the past 6 years, I did what anyone my age does and downloaded tinder. I know I shouldn't have high expectations from it but worth a shot right? I ended up matching with the what I have come to find out is the most confusing ma... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Most Confusing Man EVER... Help?? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/meww4r/most_confusing_man_ever_help/ |
samrat_31 | 2022-09-03 08:07:12 | 1,662,192,432 | null | ['dating apps', 'okcupid'] | 0 | x4p230 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/x4p230/kinky_berliners/ | 0 | I was able to handle my high libido before thanks to my ex who is a nymphomanic. We had good rough sex. After her tragedic death, I had to handle the shock, loneliness and libido. Gym, sports and running become my best friends. I never used dating apps before, I created account in okcupid recently and when I wrote good... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Kinky Berliners | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/x4p230/kinky_berliners/ |
MoistArtichoke316 | 2023-04-17 21:49:36 | 1,681,768,176 | 0 | ['matched', 'swiped', 'bumble'] | 0 | 12py9ko | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12py9ko/she_thinks_im_not_interested_in_her/ | 2 | About a month ago I came across the profile of a really cute girl on Bumble and I couldn't believe how similar our profiles were. It honestly seemed like it was the profile of the female version of myself that I was looking at. I obviously swiped right, and it was a match. We started texting and things were going great... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | She thinks I'm not interested in her? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12py9ko/she_thinks_im_not_interested_in_her/ |
slothereen-94 | 2023-10-02 10:35:17 | 1,696,242,917 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16xt5mh | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16xt5mh/breaking_heart_of_someone_you_love/ | 1 | I (30F) dated a guy (32M) for four months. We grew close very quickly and he loved the hell out of me. I am the second girl he’s ever been with. He is loyal, loving, kind and I felt good around him. But we live in different cities. I have been desperately looking for someone for past few years and the dating apps and t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Breaking heart of someone you love | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16xt5mh/breaking_heart_of_someone_you_love/ |
Brokebrokeboii | 2024-01-09 00:57:06 | 1,704,761,826 | 0 | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1921kse | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1921kse/girl_told_me_i_look_better_in_my_pics_than_real/ | 1 | I have always had hard time converting first hinge dates into second. I do way better with tinder dates for whatever reason I once posted a thread on Reddit and everyone said it’s my personality But my last date was was very blunt and told me I’m not as good looking my pictures and that’s why she’s not interested Usual... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl told me I look better in my pics than real life | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1921kse/girl_told_me_i_look_better_in_my_pics_than_real/ |
toiletthedestroyer | 2020-07-31 14:38:30 | 1,596,206,310 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | i18m1d | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/i18m1d/how_do_you_say_lets_just_be_friends_without/ | 3 | I (28yo male) went on a date with a girl from Hinge. She’s really cool, we got along great. Went back to her place, hung out, made out (I initiated), and then I left. After some reflection, I’m not that attracted to her. But I do want to be friends. What’s the best way to say this? What have you done in the past? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you say “Let’s just be friends” without saying “Let’s just be friends”? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/i18m1d/how_do_you_say_lets_just_be_friends_without/ |
SouthImpression3577 | 2024-04-10 03:28:16 | 1,712,719,696 | 0 | ['tinder', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 1c0bsov | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c0bsov/is_it_me_or_is_the_dating_market_just_crazy/ | 1 | This is a bit of a vent from me trying to re-re-break into dating. Been doing my masters and the girls in my classes tend to be super chill with me, same with the ones I volunteer with, just that I found very few of them to be attractive or they're already in relationships. I go online for dating and despite "10s of mi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it me or is the dating market just crazy? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c0bsov/is_it_me_or_is_the_dating_market_just_crazy/ |
Icysepto02 | 2024-07-18 14:31:59 | 1,721,313,119 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1e6cw4m | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e6cw4m/should_i_make_my_instagramsocial_medias_apps/ | 0 | So I’m a 32(F) widow with 2 kids. Have not dated for 5 years. One guy was interested 2 years ago but I did not want to long distance. Now I am ready to try dating again. Apps have failed me in the past. I mostly get matches that don’t initiate a conversation or will lead me on and never ask to go on a date. So Ive had ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I make my Instagram/social medias apps public? Do guys approach women on these platforms for a serious relationship or just hookup? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e6cw4m/should_i_make_my_instagramsocial_medias_apps/ |
OkayTitu | 2024-03-07 20:00:47 | 1,709,841,647 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1b93qem | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b93qem/need_urgent_opinions_and_help/ | 1 | Ive recently come to terms with my lying and pretentiousness with my girlfriend for 4 months i have been in love with my girlfriend for 4 months now, and with my past where I had been in and out of a lot of casual relationships and situationships, I was always overwhelmed with how much I was attached and attracted to h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | need urgent opinions and help | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b93qem/need_urgent_opinions_and_help/ |
tryin_not2_confuse | 2021-01-08 19:31:59 | 1,610,134,319 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | kt9sz6 | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kt9sz6/separate_ig_account_for_dic_pic/ | 4 | Added someone from dating app on ig. Conversation was very innocent and not flirty AT ALL, and the guy looks cheerful and happy and not creepy. Received a DM request with the guy’s name, I thought it might be the messages with images before I accept his following request(he added me to send me some photos). Opened it, ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Separate ig account for dic pic?? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kt9sz6/separate_ig_account_for_dic_pic/ |
Ok_Presentation_8874 | 2022-12-23 22:15:13 | 1,671,833,713 | null | null | 0 | ztu7wj | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ztu7wj/thoughts_on_tinder_follow_ups/ | 1 | So after a few messages I sent a weak ass response, not my first time sending messages or datings on the apps. Mind you I sent this message 3 hours ago, but I know I screwed up already. But….. what do we think about sending follow up messages and when should I send it….. I was thinking of something really cheesy on Chr... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Thoughts on tinder follow ups | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ztu7wj/thoughts_on_tinder_follow_ups/ |
rose-cake | 2024-01-10 20:41:51 | 1,704,919,311 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 193ikkk | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/193ikkk/how_do_i_24f_let_the_person_im_seeing_23m_know_im/ | 1 | I(24F) am in a fling/situationship with a man (23M) I met on tinder a few months ago. I never said at any point that I wanted a relationship, and to me its been pretty clear from the beginning that we were both looking for a fling. For some reason, he is under the impression I want a relationship and has been acting ac... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I (24F) let the person I'm seeing (23M) know I'm just looking for a fling or fwb? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/193ikkk/how_do_i_24f_let_the_person_im_seeing_23m_know_im/ |
Nayko214 | 2021-03-13 01:01:18 | 1,615,597,278 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'OLD'] | 0 | m3vp64 | true | Venting | 52 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m3vp64/multiple_weeks_of_swiping_right_and_not_a_single/ | 8 | Got back into the OLD game due to well... gestures vaguely to the state of the world .... and despite taking every piece of advice, working on every little detail, and even contacting the support from the places themselves (I basically have gotten from everywhere 'everything looks good!') I still can't get a single con... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Multiple weeks of swiping right and not a single conversation | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m3vp64/multiple_weeks_of_swiping_right_and_not_a_single/ |
Similar-Fig8586 | 2023-11-30 05:11:51 | 1,701,321,111 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 187ak90 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/187ak90/talked_to_a_guy_for_so_long_and_when_it_came_to/ | 1 | I added a guy from tinder on Snapchat and by phone number. He lived in another city that was like 2 hours away plus a 2hr ferry ride but he would visit in my city because he would go see his dad once in a while. On his profile he was looking for short-term but open to long-term. We would have great conversations gettin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Talked to a guy for so long and when it came to meeting him, he ghosted me | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/187ak90/talked_to_a_guy_for_so_long_and_when_it_came_to/ |
Less-Bison-4959 | 2024-03-01 09:14:32 | 1,709,284,472 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1b3q1c8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b3q1c8/just_a_girl_with_a_crush_on_cute_curly_head_man/ | 1 | I met this guy on hinge (steve) he had been texting me wanting to hang out in person. eventually i gave in and we went on a cute little date to a local owned pizza place. we talked a bit, sat in his car and ate pizza. it was nice. couple days later steve takes me out on two more dates at (nice) restaurants and then our... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | just a girl with a crush on cute curly head man | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b3q1c8/just_a_girl_with_a_crush_on_cute_curly_head_man/ |
Admirable_Payment503 | 2020-12-27 05:39:04 | 1,609,047,544 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | kky6bq | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kky6bq/how_does_a_match_with_a_sex_worker_on_tinder_work/ | 2 | I’m a 28 year old guy and just moved to an old folks community and live with my parents. So I try to use social media to meet people but all I meet are sex workers. How do those matches work, and could I meet a girlfriend eventually? I’d buy her dinner and go to a movie with her like a one night stand but I’m not doing... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How does a match with a sex worker on tinder work? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kky6bq/how_does_a_match_with_a_sex_worker_on_tinder_work/ |
throwaway9261904 | 2023-07-23 12:58:39 | 1,690,117,119 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 157e8lk | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/157e8lk/how_to_tell_if_someone_is_a_bad_texter_or_just/ | 1 | I (30f) met a guy (30m) on Tinder, we've been out on several dates, and i've stayed overnight at his place a couple times. When we're together, he is great! He's making engaging conversation, affectionate, funny, basically all the things I would want him to be. When we're apart, I don't hear much from him. We're connec... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to tell if someone is a bad texter, or just nor interested? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/157e8lk/how_to_tell_if_someone_is_a_bad_texter_or_just/ |
MrGuard1 | 2018-06-29 22:24:37 | 1,530,311,077 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 8ux921 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8ux921/girl_i_met_online_used_old_photos_how_to_cancel/ | 0 | Asked a girl out online, she said yes. But I looked her up on social media, and realized that her online dating photos are all 4-5 years old, and do not represent her today. I haven't set the date yet, but how do I cancel it now? Or should I go through with the first date anyways? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl I met online used old photos... how to cancel date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8ux921/girl_i_met_online_used_old_photos_how_to_cancel/ |
an_exhausted_soul | 2019-12-14 18:47:08 | 1,576,349,228 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | eanjgw | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eanjgw/inexperienced_at_dating/ | 2 | Hi folks. Im a (M26) After a lot of struggle and anticipation in dating for almost my whole life, I might finally have a chance to go out with a girl I have been talking on Tinder. This is the first time I'll ever go out with a girl (no, I'm not Gay or Bi). My question is if thing go well and its goes beyond the first ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Inexperienced at Dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eanjgw/inexperienced_at_dating/ |
EnthusiasmMental1299 | 2023-09-13 22:32:01 | 1,694,644,321 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16i12x2 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16i12x2/how_to_not_feel_hopeless_if_you_are_single_in/ | 1 | I'm singe at 31. I recently broke up with a boyfriend who just didn't feel right - he checked a lot of my boxes but at the end of the day it felt like we didn't have a lot in common and I definitely wouldn't consider him my "best friend" which is what I want from a relationship. How do I keep up the hope? My friends ar... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How to not feel hopeless if you are single in your 30s? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16i12x2/how_to_not_feel_hopeless_if_you_are_single_in/ |
dave_greenberg | 2018-10-04 12:49:38 | 1,538,657,378 | null | ['matches', 'dating platforms', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 9lbla5 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9lbla5/the_best_dating_sites_for_those_who_want_to_get/ | 0 | World Wide Web has already given us a lot of great possibilities to improve our lives. One of those definitely is the chance to find your significant other, no matter where he or she lives. Dating sites and apps are there for us to connect the loving hearts regardless the distance. If you think that searching for the o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The Best Dating Sites For Those Who Want To Get Married | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9lbla5/the_best_dating_sites_for_those_who_want_to_get/ |
MrTerrificPants | 2016-05-17 13:06:12 | 1,463,490,372 | 0 | ['pof'] | 0 | 4jqsqk | null | Story/Report | 21 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/4jqsqk/what_were_the_biggest_lies_told_to_you_before_an/ | 9 | That thread from yesterday got me thinking. I remember I went on a date with a woman who, midway through our date, remarked that she was relieved that I was what I said I was. I asked her why, and she said her last online date was from POF and was with a guy who misrepresented himself A LOT. She arrived at the restaura... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What were the biggest lies told to you before an online date? | 9 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/4jqsqk/what_were_the_biggest_lies_told_to_you_before_an/ |
newtoonline | 2012-09-27 16:57:44 | 1,348,765,064 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'pof', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 10kjw6 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/10kjw6/new_to_online_dating_am_i_over_reading_these/ | 2 | 27 male. Im not posting this on okcupid, because I dont like that site and the people that use match and POF much more closely fit what im looking for. 1) Two girls have deleted their profiles prior to meeting. within a day or two. i talked to both multiple times prior to meeting for hours at a time on the phone. Had f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | new to online dating. Am i over reading these things? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10kjw6/new_to_online_dating_am_i_over_reading_these/ |
sultrylust | 2019-07-20 16:10:05 | 1,563,639,005 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | cfnhnd | true | Requesting Advice | 43 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/cfnhnd/i_40f_tried_breaking_up_with_my_guy_42m_but_feel/ | 20 | I'm going to be completely honest here. I don't have a great track record with my exes. My last relationship was a doozie. I trusted him to a fault and found our entire relationship was a lie 5 years in. His exterior was one of a loyal, trustworthy man. He hid a parade of women from me. I never checked his phone until ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I (40F) tried breaking up with my guy (42M) but feel he talked me into staying. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/cfnhnd/i_40f_tried_breaking_up_with_my_guy_42m_but_feel/ |
royaltype111 | 2018-08-24 05:22:02 | 1,535,088,122 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 99uqkx | true | Question | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/99uqkx/she_flaked_and_i_waisted_my_gas/ | 2 | I have a question and I'm 100% confused I was talking to this girl shes a single mom and really cute and we texted for a couple of days and weve have amazing funny and serious conversations and I thought we were vibing really. And so i decide to ask Sunday for her to meet up with me Thursday (today) and to make sure sh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | She Flaked and I waisted my gas | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/99uqkx/she_flaked_and_i_waisted_my_gas/ |
rootScythe | 2024-08-05 01:39:17 | 1,722,821,957 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1ekbryc | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ekbryc/gave_my_phone_to_a_woman_i_like_but_shes_not/ | 0 | Matched with an amazing person on Hinge, and we hit it off on our first date. I decided to give her my number because the app doesn't always send me notifications of when she messages me. We're already planning our second and third date so I thought it was a good time to get off the app. She said she saved my number in... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Gave my phone to a woman I like, but she's not using it | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ekbryc/gave_my_phone_to_a_woman_i_like_but_shes_not/ |
that_nonbinary_vamp | 2023-01-14 07:53:26 | 1,673,682,806 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 10biy7b | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10biy7b/im_scared_of_dating_and_letting_people_in/ | 2 | i’ve been on dating apps for a while now. never really had something going on for long. mostly because i wouldn’t open up. but recently like 2 weeks ago i wanna say i matched with someone and we started texting and we made plans to go on a date in like a week. however me being me i started to overthink and had a little... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | i’m scared of dating and letting people in | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10biy7b/im_scared_of_dating_and_letting_people_in/ |
whataboutthatoneguy | 2018-03-05 02:55:30 | 1,520,218,530 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 822ukj | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/822ukj/when_did_you_know_you_were_ready/ | 3 | 34m - going through divorce after a decade together. It hasn’t been long (little over a month), but I find myself craving the flirting, joking, and friendship. I really don’t want to go the OLD route. I guess what I need right now is something simple, but am aware that it may still be too early for anything at all. Any... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | When did you know you were ready? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/822ukj/when_did_you_know_you_were_ready/ |
123ilovelaughing123 | 2022-01-07 13:53:48 | 1,641,563,628 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ry7v7t | true | null | 362 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ry7v7t/is_my_approach_outdated/ | 149 | UPDATE: I immediately started practicing some more even communication outreach and it has so far been working even better than my previous approach. It’s helped me be more intentional in who I’m actually getting to know - and it’s in a more effective way. Thank you so much for all of your helpful feedback! I (31F) have... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Is my approach outdated? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ry7v7t/is_my_approach_outdated/ |
ThisIsMyAlt54327 | 2022-12-21 17:45:24 | 1,671,644,724 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | zrvgzj | true | null | 70 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zrvgzj/she_told_me_she_didnt_feel_a_spark/ | 14 | Last night I (22M) went on a date with a girl (20M) I met on tinder. We already had a good chat going online, and the date itself was also going good. At the end I gave her a hug. Now she texts me she had fun but she didn't feel a spark. When I asked why she said I made good conversation but she didn't see it going any... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She told me she didn't feel a spark | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zrvgzj/she_told_me_she_didnt_feel_a_spark/ |
a_ne_mo_ne | 2023-03-19 19:03:16 | 1,679,252,596 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 11vuarj | true | Question ❓ | 23 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11vuarj/dating_for_introverted_people/ | 30 | Not totally an introvert, an ambivert probably. I am selectively social. 99% of the time I am okay and I enjoy being alone but I guess I am at the 1% right now. Dating is hard nowadays especially for people like me who's lifestyle is considered "quarantine" to some. Lol. Are there any subreddit lounge for those who are... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating for introverted people | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11vuarj/dating_for_introverted_people/ |
swanceba | 2023-10-14 22:12:35 | 1,697,321,555 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1780grf | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1780grf/need_help_with_reaching_out_to_an_old_friend/ | 1 | I recently moved back close to my hometown and have been looking to meet people, mostly on Hinge. I came across the profile of someone I knew fairly well from high school and had a crush on back then. I want to reach out and send a like to her, but I don't know what to say For context, she and I went to college in diff... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help with reaching out to an old friend! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1780grf/need_help_with_reaching_out_to_an_old_friend/ |
auroraborelle | 2022-07-01 19:53:20 | 1,656,705,200 | null | ['matches', 'swipes', 'swiping', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | vp9fdk | true | null | 80 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/vp9fdk/dating_app_photos/ | 23 | I’ve been thinking a lot lately about dating apps, and how poorly they work for most people—and I realized something. The format hinges entirely on photos. Stay with me here. We all know this, right? But we tend to assume that means it hinges on whether we’re extremely good looking, or least naturally photogenic, which... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Dating App Photos | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/vp9fdk/dating_app_photos/ |
cboone23 | 2020-01-08 17:32:26 | 1,578,504,746 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | elvuyu | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/elvuyu/why_would_he_text_me_and_then_not_respond_after/ | 1 | Me and this guy met on Hinge about a year ago, sexted a bit, made out in person and things fizzled out. Recently, he reached out telling me he wishes he would have pursued me more. Turns out I'm still really attracted to him and we hooked up. The sex was really really good for me. I think it was for him because he said... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why would he text me and then not respond, after implying we’d hook up again? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/elvuyu/why_would_he_text_me_and_then_not_respond_after/ |
cookiecatmonsterr | 2020-07-26 15:17:47 | 1,595,776,667 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | hy8mvg | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hy8mvg/how_not_to_be_depressed/ | 5 | I had no girlfriend in the last decade and thats worries me. It just not working for me. Im using dating apps but with no luck at all. Few years ago i could go do dates but every time when i go back to those apps its getting worse (now you have to pay for everything and so on). Now i cant even get into normal conversat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How not to be depressed? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hy8mvg/how_not_to_be_depressed/ |
iSqoozie | 2020-07-18 04:08:32 | 1,595,045,312 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | htadqq | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/htadqq/matched_with_a_new_girl_today/ | 2 | I matched with a new girl on Hinge today, things are going very well. We ended up moving it over to Snapchat, and she told me that I ask really good questions. Just looking for ways not to fuck it up besides being my self. Also, she lives 2 hours away, not looking to meet in person anytime soon. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Matched with a new girl today | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/htadqq/matched_with_a_new_girl_today/ |
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