The story goes that two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped  the other one in the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand: "Today my best friend slapped me in the face."  They kept on walking until they found an oasis , where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning , but the friend saved him.  After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone: "Today my best friend saved my life."  The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now you write on a stone. Why?" The other friend replied: _   can erase  it away. But when someone does something good for us, we must engrave  it in stone where no wind can ever erase it." You have to learn to write your hurts in the sand and to carve your benefits in the stone. When they found an oasis   _  .
they decided to swim out of the desert from it. the second friend wanted to slap his friend back. They wanted to take a break and wash themselves. The first friend was saved from drowning by the second and felt ashamed .