Use arrow ipc file format
Should we close this PR? Yes, this one was mostly related to https://github.com/huggingface/datasets/issues/4542 but now I think the TF support is not needed at the moment. What about enabling the Arrow IPC format through an environment variable/config? Would be very helpful to better interop. with other libraries (e.g. [polars](https://pola-rs.github.io/polars/py-polars/html/reference/api/polars.scan_ipc.html)) + supporting reads through pyarrow datasets.
According to the [documentation](https://arrow.apache.org/docs/format/Columnar.html?highlight=arrow1#ipc-file-format), it's identical to the streaming format except that it contains the memory offsets of each sample:

> We define a “file format” supporting random access that is build with the stream format. The file starts and ends with a magic string ARROW1 (plus padding). What follows in the file is identical to the stream format. At the end of the file, we write a footer containing a redundant copy of the schema (which is a part of the streaming format) plus memory offsets and sizes for each of the data blocks in the file. This enables random access any record batch in the file. See File.fbs for the precise details of the file footer.

Since it stores more metadata regarding the positions of the examples in the file, it should enable better example retrieval performances. However from the discussion in https://github.com/huggingface/datasets/issues/1803 it looks like it's not the case unfortunately. Maybe in the future this will allow speed gains.

I think it's still a good idea to start using it anyway for these reasons:
- in the future we may have speed gains
- it contains the arrow streaming format data
- it's compatible with the pyarrow Dataset implementation (it allows to load remote dataframes for example) if we want to use it in the future
- it's also the format used by arrow feather if we want to use it in the future
- it's roughly the same size as the streaming format
- it's easy to have backward compatibility with the streaming format

