Memory leak / Large memory usage with num_workers = 0 and numerous dataset within DatasetDict
Thanks for the report, this is possibly related #7722 and #7694.

Could you pls provide steps to reproduce this? To overcome this issue right now I did simply reduce the size of the dataset and ended up running a for loop (my training has now a constant learning rate schedule). From what I understood, and I don't know if it's possible, the solution would be to tell the backend of `datasets` to leave x% of the memory free  (including memory mapping). Can't release the data right now but I will and then allow to reproduce this issue. But it will involve to have some free TB of disk @raphaelsty thanks for coming back to this. I assume you are running in streaming mode? That should prevent these errors but it looks like more people than just you have this problem, so a clearly reproducing example (including data + code) is highly appreciated. This could be related to this issue: https://github.com/huggingface/datasets/issues/4883 in which we discussed how RSS and memory mapping works and depends on the OS and disk type.
### Describe the bug

Hi team, first off, I love the datasets library! 🥰

I'm encountering a potential memory leak / increasing memory usage when training a model on a very large DatasetDict.

Setup: I have a DatasetDict containing 362 distinct datasets, which sum up to ~2.8 billion rows.

Training Task: I'm performing contrastive learning with SentenceTransformer and Accelerate on a single node with 4 H100, which requires me to sample from only one dataset at a time.

Training Loop: At each training step, I sample ~16,000 examples from a single dataset, and then switch to a different dataset for the next step. I iterate through all 362 datasets this way. 

Problem: The process's memory usage continuously increases over time, eventually causing a stale status where GPUs would stop working. It seems memory from previously sampled datasets isn't being released. I've set num_workers=0 for all experiments.

Chart 1: Standard DatasetDict The memory usage grows steadily until it make the training stale (RSS memory) <img width="773" height="719" alt="Image" src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/6606bef5-1153-4f2d-bf08-82da249d6e8d" />

Chart 2: IterableDatasetDict I also tried  to use IterableDatasetDict and IterableDataset. The memory curve is "smoother," but the result is the same: it grows indefinitely and the training become stale. <img width="339" height="705" alt="Image" src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/ee90c1a1-6c3b-4135-9edc-90955cb1695a" />

Any feedback or guidance on how to manage this memory would be greatly appreciated!

### Steps to reproduce the bug

WIP, I'll add some code that manage to reproduce this error, but not straightforward. 

### Expected behavior

The memory usage should remain relatively constant or plateau after a few steps. Memory used for sampling one dataset should be released before or during the sampling of the next dataset.

### Environment info

Python: 3.12
Datasets: 4.3.0
SentenceTransformers: 5.1.1