Instruct: Classify a given review as either positive or negative.
Query: hmm, not what i was looking for...

i havent finished this book. probably won't. I have no children of my own and am planning on becoming part of a family with my boyfriend and his 2 children (deceased mother). And after reading the book, i feel like most of the information is common sense... it just seems like my idea of a stepmother is exactly that.... not a mother. another female other than the mother helping to raise the children... right? do most people not feel like that? (these are my questions after reading most of this book). i will keep the book for reference. but it wasnt very helpful. more confusing for me.